So you want a divorce

Let me start this by saying My husband and I are happily married, and have no intentions of giving up on our relationship never. We both realize marriage is a hard thing and takes a lot of work. I hope my husband realizes in 10 years I will not look the same as what I did when we first got together, and I hope he realizes we will not be the same person in 10 years. I understand my husband looks will change, and that he will not be the same person in 10 years. We will be pretty much who we are but as we age we learn things, and we grow so this will change us. We will grow together or at least. We will always try to keep the romance in our lives, and have our date nights when we can.

Heres’s a word of advice people. Be yourself, do not change who you are, if you change they probably will not like you anyways. It is okay to be who you are, and let them see the real you because that what they will get if you get married.

So you’re telling me your wife does not look like she did when you first got married and she fat. Get over it, I am fairly sure that you have gained some weight and don’t look as good as you used to. She has a reason she had kids. I am not saying she doesn’t need to loose weight I don’t know I haven’t seen her. If you got married just because of her looks, your Stupid and really never loved her. There is more to a marriage then Physical attraction. This person is to be your best friend, the person you go to for everything the one you trust with everything.

Well I am not getting sex at home so I have to get it somewhere. Excuse me Just because you married don’t give you the right to have sex when ever you feel like it. Frankly I do not want to hear about who you sleeping with or if your unfaithful to your wife. You think you have a right to sleep with anything that has two legs well you don’t. What happened to the Commandment of Do not commit adultery, do you honestly think G-d changed his mind when he said this. G-d NEVER said Do not Commit Adultery unless your wife tells you she not up to it or isn’t interest. Instead G-d told us to love your wife as Christ loved the Church. Honestly Do NOT talk to me about G-d if you going to be talking to me about cheating on your wife.

Yeshua told us when he was asked about Divorced that G-d allowed it, because our hearts where harden. Guess what Yeshua right, you claim you believe and no one can judge your behavior as wrong. Bull **** Do not yell at me because I am happily married, yes its been just over a year, and we are still newly married, but I know my husband isn’t going to leave me just because he fall out of love with me.

This goes for Woman also, Your spouse has every reason to leave you because of marital unfaithfulness. G-d told woman to submit to their husband, I do not see submission as what some believe it to be. I believe marriage is a partnership it is hard work.

My father and mother divorce when i was a small child. So you have kids, think about what your unfaithfulness is going to do to your kids. Here I can tell you, I can’t trust anyone, relationships aren’t meant to work out. I often asked myself what I did so bad to cause my dad to walk out. I remember there where times growing up we had to do dumpster diving in order to have clothes or food. So you want to leave your kids make sure you support them and encourage them that this is because of Mom and Dad not because of anything they did. Have a friendly relationship with each other do NOT make them pick who they love the most. This will put emotional scars on them.

When Yeshua said G-d allowed divorced because our hearts where harden, that was thousand of years ago, It seems like divorce is growing at a freighting rate.

Why am I posting about this, because I was yelled at today. I know the person didn’t want my opinion they wanted someone to argue with because I probably believe the same way as his wife. Marriage is forever, and you know I can see why she would not want him seeing the kids. He committed adultery and he is doing it with probably more then the one person I know. It is funny I need to say nothing and I get yelled at for my beliefs, because I am not like them. The most I have told him in the pass is you don’t have to cuss so much, grant it I used some of the words to show him what I was talking about and that was wrong. Today I told him Hey I am not here to make friends. Frankly I don’t need a friend like him. When I lift for work he was trying to tell me what to do with my husband when I got home. I told him I don’t need your advice you have a failing marriage. I am so sick of hearing how I am judging them when I do not say anything. Maybe I aught to start telling them exactly what I think and give them a reason to say I am being judgmental.