Do the right thing

My husband and I have been married for 20 months. We are newly weds but at the same time not so newly wedded. We love each other and waited until we got married before doing anything with each other, shoot we didn’t even hold hands or kiss. Not because we weren’t attracted to each other but because we didn’t want to cross over any lines that would make it hard for us to stop. We took our Rabbi advise very seriously. My husband was the first guy I have had a relationship that didn’t go to hell in a hand basket. I never gave into what men wanted but I found it hard because I started to feel like what wrong with me.
My Rabbi early in our relationship warned us not to get involved, because it would hurt our trust in each other. Rabbi is right the guys I dated very short term I couldn’t trust because I felt they where out for one thing only. I wanted to wait for the man G-d had for me, and I felt not waiting would be like committing adultery, and it probably would have been seen as adultery. I trust my husband because I know he waited for a long time before, and if he could wait for that then shoot I don’t have much to worry about. In Proverbs 6:20-35 it warns against committing adultery, through out the Torah and other books of the Old Testiment we are warned against committing adultery. We are warned against committing adultery on G_d, He tells us he is a jealous G-d.
What amazes me that the church in general keeps a good 98 percent of the bible but then they throw out the sabbath. I was talking to a pastor a few weeks ago, about the Sabbath and he told me he knew G-d never changed the Sabbath. I asked him, why don’t you change your services to the Sabbath he told me he was worried the church would quit going. Well, maybe if he would make a effort to change something his congregation would be happier and most congregations after they understand why something is being done they will follow their leadership as long as leadership hasn’t totally broke trust with them.
Sometimes it seems that pastor would rather have their gold cufflinks and fancy cars, that they aren’t so welling to listen to G-d and do what they know to be right.