If they would just listen

Posted by admin on October 17th, 2008 filed in Uncategorized

It’s been over a month since we lost mom to her battle with cancer. Things are going okay for hubby and I except for communication isn’t very well and there are always challenges we have to face but we know G-d is with us. Dad called us this week, this isn’t a good time because I still haven’t gotten any work, since his mom death. I think I might have something but we will see speaking of that I need to call the Attorney General or BBB, find out if this company is real. I think it is sounds like it is but right now I don’t need to do anything which could cause me to be hurt more financially. Losing over a month of income has differently caused hubby and I some stressed.
Dad called last night, he was staying with a neighbor lady. We had misgivings and encouraged dad not to live there. Dad was pretty insistant so I met her and still didn’t like the idea but didn’t think she would harm him. She got back together with her husband who well dangerous, and should never be allowed around children. He back there with her and her children, and started getting threating toward dad which is what my biggest worry was he be a problem. She had told me she wouldn’t charge dad any rent, he could just have the room there.
A few days ago we got a call from a friend of his about maybe 1 1/2 away from here that dad was there. Okay he safe, but we still have miss givings on this family to but we can’t tell dad where he can and can not live. We can tell him we don’t like the idea and worry about him. I told him why I was worried and asked him not to do live with this lady.
Dad wanted to live with her. Later they called me back dad wanted to talk, when he called back and was saying everything and he said something I can’t remember. I told him Dad when you going to listen to me, when I tell you something a good idea. He says Yeah I know your always right but we men just don’t listen. I told him that was the truth, I can’t count the times on my fingers and toes I have told hubby not to do something because it be a bad idea and he went ahead and did it. I told dad maybe next time he would listen to me, because it might save him heart ache. At least now he will be feed and has heat so we don’t have to worry to much. The lady he was living with is refusing to give him back his stuff, and claiming he ows her rent, so we will have to contact the Sherif department and see if they can send out a debuty to help with getting his stuff back. What a mess I need a strong Starbucks coffee. I am hoping our friends can help us with getting dad stuff back since hubby and I can’t afford the gas down there. We can’t aford anything more we are so broke. I really hope this job is real because if it is then we won’t have to worry about it any more.
The thing that is eating me right now is dad has carted her around everywhere, she uses his van pretty when she wants. The van needs repairs and she don’t help doing that, she don’t even put gas in it. He gave her his RV, because she wanted it. He given her other stuff, he even worked for her doign a paper route which he saw no money for. Okay What’s wrong with this picture, sorry if anyone owes money to anyone it’s her to him.

Leave a Comment