Strange

What I find strange is that my husband and I can argue we can say stupid things whenever we want. Normally with hubby if I argue with him, and sleep at night. It doesn’t affect the way I sleep. Last night my husband sister called and you know I think she possessed of the devil or maybe she is the devil! I know this is not kind to say of someone. Okay women this post you should read, if you where not raped or molested by a man don’t claim it or if your going to lie at least don’t call that man everyday.
When you lie about a man like that it can really get them in trouble. So Don’t do it, be honest. What piss me off is that they got caught taking from dad what ever they want, and then they accuse him of doing stuff. Now that ticks me off. I am not saying dad is perfect but well he aint going to go after a girl. Dad been worried about this and I understand. I didn’t sleep because I was worried about dad and angry as all can get.
Today the girl called me asking if I was going to press charges on her, I told her as long as you disconnect all the services in dads name no we will not press charges but if I find out there are more services I will. Then she asked for the check that a company decided should go to dad, I told her if I could prove she hadn’t charge his account I would give her the money. Here’s the thing she owe dad a good amount of money, and frankly I think dad has a right to that money because the company decided it should go to dad because this woman took his info with out dad knowledge and then asked for permission after the fact. Dad is 86 years old and was ran rugged for months and then sleep for a few days when he came up. I worry about what they would do.
Now my husband and I do not celebrate Christmas, we do Chanukah and I know dad wants to see his grandkids but I am worried about his grad kids not understanding him not going down there. I don’t want them to be hurt but I am wondering how in the heck to keep dad safe during the time. I know dad was planning to stay there for a few days but it just won’t be healthy for him. I don’t want him to go there and be accused of something bad, my goodness he is 86, I do not think he strong enough to make moves on girls young enough to be their grandpa, I don’t know.
I was surprised I wasn’t able to sleep which means that for class I got little or no work done. I hope I can get caught up with class and finish my learning team assignment and my personal assignment.
So why can are argue with my husband but something like this makes me lose sleep. I love my husband and care for him more so it strange I wouldn’t lose sleep with hubby but dad. Like I have a security system for dad and worrying about his well being.