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I could run away to reno nevada right now, just because I want to be a little spiteful. One thing I do not deal well is with people trying to force me to do things, which G-d might have told them to do. I hate being told to fast when I am already on a liquid diet, fasting to me isn’t because of some medical things done to you but because G-d told you to do so. I also don’t feel G-d is telling me to do so, so I won’t. I just don’t see the point in week long fast to lose weight neither. This is dangerous to me and doesn’t seem like it would be in a heart of worship, it seems to be in the heart of my weight I don’t like or I can’t chew nothing. This isn’t honoring G-d to me, Honoring G-d seems like fasting because he asked you to or because you’ve prayer needs but to encourage weight loss this is not healthy. Actually I think it’s very dangerous because that simply is a slippery sloop and at what point are you still fasting for G-d or simply starving yourself. Yes I need to lose weight but I think being on a liquid diet for a week would kind of exempt me from fasting form any forms of nutrition. My problem with fasting in general is the not getting the nutrition the body needs to function. Yes Fasting when G-d commands or prompt it is okay but I don’t think it’s okay to use it as I need to lose weight so I will fast. I can’t even think of any scriptures that says fat people should fast for a week to lose the weight they want.
It’s one things to encourage fellow believes but a whole other thing to encourage them to fall back into old life styles I think I might need to speak to Rabbi about this because I have tried to talk kindly to this person. And I honestly don’t know how to get her to understand that just because fasting is good for her doesn’t mean that what G-d telling dad hubby or I to do. Also the fact is this isn’t the first time I’ve spoken to her about the same thing. Well there always the avoidance practice but I don’t think that’s kind. I need to figure out how to relate to her better.