Update on family

I guess it time to give an update on the family. Lets see hubby doing good, and is growing as a teacher. I think I would like to see him be challenged more in this area. Trying to be a supportive wife to him, sometimes that hard sometimes it not to hard. Marriage is a good thing, kind of like a good water filters on the tap to clean the water, it sometimes makes life better. Dad is still being depressed and difficult at times to deal with. This is our Third Hanukah together, and I am glad I am spending it with him
Our family could really use some prayers, it’s stuff I can’t really blog about but I have some concerns about a few in the family and their well being. Dad been talking in his sleep, I honestly think the conversation he having is with someone he is disappointed and upset with but can’t tell them to their face. Dad tries not to share with anyone because he afraid people will stop liking him, so then he tells hubby or I everything and sometimes when your going through it all together it is hard to deal with it. I love dad but sometimes I just can’t be everything he needs me to be. I try but I just can’t. Dad told me the other day and he was praying but G-d wasn’t listening to him. I know what he’s prayer been, I know dad heart in the right place in his prayer, and I hope he will see it answered before his time to go is.
Dad been asking G-d to heal relationship that someone in the family has damage but frankly until that person repents of their wrong doing G-d can’t heal it. This person has wounded almost everyone in the family, I honestly can’t think of one person they haven’t. I have forgiven them, but you know I simply can’t have a relationship with them, they are so unstable I never know how they will act from day to day.
This is hard for dad to deal with because he wants them to change and wants the situation to change, and he thinks because his prayer has came into being G-d not listening. I told him, that sometimes G-d answer our prayers but they are not the answers we want. G-d does listen, he wants to fulfill the desire of our hearts but because he gave us freewill sometimes we do not get the desire of our heart when other are involved in the equation.
He decided to go to Torah study with hubby on Thursday after I lift for dance, I am glad he did. The men of hubby Torah group let him talk about it and prayed for him. They always make him feel very valuable along with several members form our congregation. I am so blessed to go to a congregation that I do. I know even on bad days they will still like me. I guess we need to be praying for the person salvation, but by the comments they have made they already closed off their heart to G-d. I honestly think the person is letting things that happened before mom or dad got there dictate how they behave and act.