Think before speaking

I think everyone can use a little bit of time for thinking before they speak. Sometimes just giving a couple extra seconds to think about what going to be said will avoid the problem have hubby having to give a gifts for her, or a someone causing someone to cry. I know in the word of G-d it talks about a gentle or kind word can turn away anger. That is the truth. This week my family hasn’t been pleasant to deal with and to be honest I am not the most happiest person.
Last night dad felt it was his place to tell me all the ways i didn’t look right to him. Called me fat, which I was mad, I was actually shocked because I had made him cookies which he had requested for. He wanted Pizza I made him pizza, normally when dad ask for something I make sure he has it for what he wants. Someone told me I needed to stop kissing his backside, but I never see it as that, I see it as making sure dad is happy at the end of his life. Dad has Alizhiemers, and will not live for many years and well way make his life any harder then it has to be. I love dad but somedays it gets to much for me to handle on my own. I was glad when hubby came home, because I was able to tell my hubby what happened. Then my hubby put his foot in his mouth, and i wished he would have maybe just kept it shut. I love my husband but sometimes these 2 men have the iq of a turnup to deal with a female, amazing they lived and grow up with woman so something they aught to know better.