Should say nothing

Well I am not sure what to do with Sabbath morning, it seems this is the only time hubby and I will argue. I am not sure why, normally we get along during the week. Grant it sometimes it is like a dumping feast because we can not talk around Dad. When we talk around Dad we can not be animated or raise our voice or anything because then Dad worries we will leave each other. Sometimes it seems like our date night ends up centering more around dad and what is happening with him then simply spending time with each other. I am surprised all the stress I have hasn’t started causing me to lose more hair. I been told
stress and hair loss is linked somehow, my hair lose comes from pulling at my hair when stressed, I do not realize I do this. This morning was one of those morning. I asked hubby to help me get the pills that just fall all over the place up, I will say I sounded frustrated because I didn’t want the cat eating it. Well hubby help was pointing at pills for me to pick up, I went from frustrated, to simply annoyed and feeling like a slave more than a wife. It would have been so simple for him when he found it to simply bend over and pick it up. It’s not like I asked him to sit on the floor and help me, needless to say he didn’t help me at all. He got mad at left, but I wasn’t nice about it neither. I asked for help and not to be shown where the pills fall. It’s getting to the point of where I am simply not going to ask him to do anything because clearly I end up doing most of it on my own. At least he changed the cat litter after I said I needed to get that done, so maybe me being upset this morning got him to see things differently.