We work out our own faith

This weekend someone said that he wasn’t were, my husband and I were as far as faith to do certain things. My approach to this was we all walk out our own faith and do thing when we are ready. I have went to enough church that try to change people before they understand what the meaning behind the change or even the feeling they need to change. Sometimes we have to simply step back and allow people to grow, yes encouraging is good but to force it just doesn’t seem to help believers.
Any fluid technologies now that certain fluids can be forced but some need care in their handling and forcing it could end badly. This is the same with people, they need to be handled with gentleness and caring. I am all for praying for the person and talking to them if they are open to having a discussion otherwise I would rather be careful with them.