Oh no you didn’t just do that

Dad will never cease to find ways to embarrass my husband or at at church. Today he cussed at some kid and kindof threw his cane, yep that dad for us. They are merciful where we are attending and I am wondering if this is attention seeking because I was talking to other people and so was my husband. I just happened to hear him speaking rudely to a kid who was helping out at church which isn’t very nice. I hate apologizing but most of them if I explain what wrong with him they understand and are compassionate and merciful.